Dating Your Past
The group I spent most of my time with in high school consisted of three guys and two girls: myself and a gorgeous girl named Jade. While I was horsey and self deprecating, Jade oozed sex appeal — combined damsel … Continue reading
How to Instantly Blow Your First Date
Many dating columnists advise their audience on how to successfully prep themselves for their first date. However, the advice seekers think they are following the rules on how to win over their date for a second date when they realize … Continue reading
All You Need is…Need?
I want you to think for a moment why you love the person that you’re with. Why is the relationship you are in, or once were in- a loving one? What is it about this person that makes your heart … Continue reading
One’s Company
I used to be a serial monogamist. I was in three relationships from the time I was 14 until the time I was 24. For ten solid years, I dated three men. I was comfortably happy with the knowledge that … Continue reading
Be Afraid, Be Very Afraid
I don’t see too many people in my therapy practice who tell me how wonderful their relationship is, how much passion and fire they have, and how they just can’t get enough of each other. Those people are loved up … Continue reading

